Plot Points #49 💌
Graduation, scrupulosity, and the universal language of motherhood
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Hi there and happy Friday!
Theo graduated from pre-k Wednesday (apparently that’s a thing?) and Lucy finished up fourth grade and we are officially on summer break! I’m delighted to say my mother has taken the kiddos for the entire weekend so they can do fun things and I can record the audio for Good Enough. Also, Pierce and I get to have two full days without tiny people screaming at each other at full volume. We might actually go on a date! With cute outfits on! While we drink alcohol! The possibilities are endless.
Anywho, I’m keeping it short and sweet today, so thanks for being here and I hope you all have a beautiful weekend.
Point #1: Get out your tissues.
Sarah Bessey’s beautiful benediction for her oldest daughter’s high school graduation will have you in all your feels. Sometimes that moment feels light years away for us, but then I see Lucy walk down the stairs—all 5’4” of her—and realize it will be here in a blink. I’m not ready now and I won’t be ready then, but Sarah’s words will surely hold me when the time comes.
Point #2: “The darkness remains, but I am seeing glimpses of God’s glory.”
This exquisite post from on his experience living with Religious OCD—also known as scrupulosity—is both a testimony of endurance and a gift of God’s wild, wonderful grace. Like Drew, I’ve also struggled with this subtype and his words are a tender reminder of promise and hope in Christ.
Point #3: All mothers are the same.
We might differ in our parenting styles, backgrounds, and experience, but the language of motherhood is universal and this comedian depicts it all with such hilarity I cannot stop laughing.
Word of the Week ✍🏻
Ailyak: (n.) The subtle art of doing everything with a calm, unhurried manner and enjoying the process along the way.
Receipts from a No-Buy Year 🧾
Nothing to report this week except an outside coffee for $5.47. I also exchanged The Tortured Poets Department album my mom bought for another only to find out once I got home that it, too, had duplicate C/D records! Something went wrong with that first shipment somewhere. I went back a third time and they let me open the album right there at the counter to make sure I had the A/B sides, which I did, praise the Lord. I listened to the whole album all the way through when we got home because of course I did.
No one writes sad songs like T-Swizzle. Change my mind.
Reading in The Nook 📚
My hold for Emily P. Freeman’s latest How to Walk Into a Room finally came through at the library this week and it’s just as good as I suspected. I’m only halfway, but I’m already learning so much about the “rooms” we live in and how complex those spaces can be when it comes to making decisions. So grateful for Emily’s wisdom here!
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Wendi, wow, thank you so much for your kind words! I am sorry you've had to experience this as well, but it is so comforting knowing I'm not experiencing it all by myself!